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Making Contact in the Digital Age

Some

ways to connect in the new comms.

by

Rafael Corney, dating coach

This

isn't your Daddy's world anymore. That's right. This isn't just about

picking up the phone to contact that sexy babe. Now there are options

– a dizzying array of them, in fact. Traditional phones, cell

phones, text messaging, instant messaging, email, MySpace – wow!

What's a guy supposed to do? Okay then, let me tell you about the

options from my viewpoint.

  1. Traditional

    phone:
    There are two

    points here. First is the fact of talking to her live. Second is the

    inconvenience of being tied down. If the latter doesn't bother you,

    then the plus here is getting her right here, right now, and talking

    on your time terms. Of course, she might not be there. Then what?

    Leave a message? Absolutely not. Again, keep it on your terms and

    keep calling. But, there is one caveat. What if she has caller ID?

    What if she doesn't want to talk to you? In that case, don't make a

    fool of yourself by calling ten million times. Call once a day and

    leave it at that.

  1. Cell

    phone
    : Everything I said

    above holds true, but with a cell phone, you're not tied down.

  1. Text

    messaging
    : Text

    messaging is cool. Text messaging is where it's at. Keep it cool,

    and keep it short. A simple "Hey" is enough to get

    started. And don't ask her out; your objective should be to just

    make a brief contact. You'll tantalize her, I promise.

  1. Instant

    messaging
    : Be careful

    with this one. If you use it for early contact, again, keep it brief

    and short. Lots of people get annoyed at the intrusion of IM, myself

    included.

  1. Email:

    I think email is in sum, the best option. You and she can

    communicate on your own time, "speak" without pressure,

    and set the stage for future, more direct contact. Now, guys, one

    important thing here. If she doesn't already have your phone number,

    don't, don't, DON'T say "Here is my phone number" in the

    text of the email. Rather, do, do, DO set up a signature block that

    has an impressive title, organization, and phone number where you

    can be reached.

  1. MySpace:

    I have to mention MySpace.

Rafael

Corney
is a dating

coach and has decided to put his knowledge to the Internet, and help

thousands of (classy


young) men to

learn and master the skills that are essential for a long lasting

relationship as well as how to spark the attraction that a woman can

feel in his “zone”.

He

can be reached at his blog, don’t forget the quiz at

www.Rafael-Corney.com

Rafael Corney

Rafael Corney is a dating coach and has decided to put his knowledge to the Internet, and help thousands of (classy young) men to learn and master the skills that are essential for a long lasting relationship as well as how to spark the attraction that a woman can feel in his “zone”.

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